According to Dictionary, blunder is a clumsy or embarrassing mistake. It’s also defined as error, goof, lapse or fumble.
Since nobody is an island, we will continue to learn and improve on our knowledge about life. Relationship experience and knowledge is one thing all human can’t be fed up with.
We all need to learn, unlearn and relearn from time to time. Nothing stays the same. What you know today may tomorrow needs a different knowledge and approach.
When it comes to the matter of human relationship, wether romantic relationship or friendship, you can never learn enough. We meet different people with different beliefs and views of life daily and we are expected to manage them well for our own good.
No matter what type of relationship you are in, you would still fall in blunders if you don’t know the rules. That is relationship has rules.
Sit back, relax and see some of the rules that guide romantic relationship.
1. STARTING WITH SEX
The number 1 blunder anybody can ever commit in a relationship is to start a relationship with engaging in sexual intercourse.
While this doesn’t necessarily guarantee a failed relationship, if your fresh relationship is already characterised by sexual intimacy, the blind already know it has no solid foundation and it will crumble with no remedy.
Early sexual intercourse is a very big contributory factors to many failed relationships in their first stage.
Sex is supposed to be the most sacred part of the relationship. If it’s already toyed with and you let your partner into your cookie jar before it’s time, tell me why they should still see you as a special being that you are.
2. BEING A FOOL TO LOVE
Being wise like serpent is first seeing in the Bible. Serpent has some characteristics that human really need so much and it could be of help in our relationships with fellow humans.
You can’t afford to be a fool and be insensitive or blind to the happenings around you and your relationship because you are in love. When you are in a relationship, use your senses like the serpent.
Serpent has its two eyes. Each eye covers 180 degree on each side of its head. In total that’s 360 degrees all together. Which means serpent see all around without running around.
Be gentle like a dove. That’s the way the Bible puts it. Avoid being aggressive. Nobody wants to stay with a contending partner. Nobody wants to marry a trouble maker. Check yourself, if you think you have to foment trouble to make your voice heard in a relationship, that may be the blunder you are committing.
3. LIVING AN ISOLATED LIFE
Some have neglected their friends all because they started a relationship. Some, their partners have barred them from seeing their families, confide in them or any other person whatsoever.
This can’t be a healthy kind of relationship. Relationships don’t incarcerate. There is freedom of speech and associations in relationship. When you find yourself in a relationship that takes away your right and sense of belonging, it is better you opt out. That’s one kind of blunder you don’t want to commit, because it’s very costly.
4. NOT FLOCKING WITH EXPERIENCED MINDS
Don’t associate with just anybody when in a relationship. Flocking around your mates alone might not be enough. Relate with older people. Try mix with the opposite sex and see how they reason. Talk to those that are older and ready to share their experiences.
If all you do is to mix with those that speak evil of every relationship, you may not find it easy in your relationship either. You will always suspect your partner’s moves and read negative meanings to all their words. So choose your company right and relate good.
5. STOP LEARNING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS
Another blunder you may have to avoid like plagues is to stop learning about relationships. This is really killing and it’s one of the reasons why many are finding it hard in their relationships.
When last did you read about relationships? Read about friendship relationship, study romantic relationship. There is always something new to learn.
Don’t assume you know it all if you do, you will fail. Read and learn what men like, study what women want. If your target is to end up marrying that person, then start reading about Marriage too.
If you keep committing the blunder of not studying in your relationship, you are planning to fail again. You will be shocked to realise that the knowledge you need often times is hidden somewhere in the books.
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