While some women complain that their men demand too much of sex from them, some women are complaining of not having enough. Different folks for different strokes.
Some women enjoy sex when it’s normal, some want it weird or in a hard way. Some women don’t want it at all. Yes, it’s true. Some women don’t like sex, but they can’t hate it either. Let’s say those women are just in between.
The women in between, are mostly, the ones that are ready to substitute penetrative sexual intercourse for just foreplay or oral sex. It may not be their fault; it could be either their build up or their sexual life might have been shaped by their partner’s sexual behaviour.
However, if you have come across or you are currently with a man that enjoys sex a lot, these are what you must know.
1. HE IS ALSO AWARE OF IT
Your man knows, too, that he enjoys having a lot of sex with you. He is not in the dark about it and he wishes you enjoy him having sex with you. He isn’t a sadist, as he’s never intended to make you hate sex.
Contrary to what some women may think about their men for having sex of a long period with them, which often times makes sex irritating or seems like hard work to them. This is going out to say, your man is aware he’s staying longer than you wanted on you. He isn’t trying to prove anything to you but to make you too enjoy him.
You can sit him down and talk it out until he listens and reduces the minutes he spends and if he’s unable to control it, kindly ask him to always give you enough interval and not everyday thing, for you to be ready before you do it again.
2. HE IS HAPPY ABOUT IT
Your man isn’t sad about this. As a matter of fact, this is what he’s always prayed for—to be able to satisfy you. That’s what he’s always thought he is doing to you.
I’m not saying your man is happy to “brutalize” you. I’m saying he’s happy he can live up to expectations of a woman from man. You need to know how many men and women cry over not having a satisfactory sexual life. If your man thinks he’s satisfying you, he would be more than happy to continue doing it.
3. HIS FOOD CAN BE THE CAUSE
You might want to check what your man eats, if he’s always erect and wants you all the time. You don’t take this food away or you may cause a problem in the home. You may just have to apply wisdom. Don’t forget that men enjoy food a lot, too.
If your man can’t joke with fruits, he won’t be able to joke with sex. Fruits like banana, watermelon, veggies, tiger nuts, ginger, date palm, etc
Apart from making your man to want more of sex, all these fruits have other health benefits that’s useful for all.
4. HE COULD HAVE INHERITED IT
Well, am happy to inform you that it’s hereditary for man, (male and female) to enjoy a lot of sex more than you may think it’s normal. It’s also in the gene of those who don’t have desires much for sex.
At the Hebrew University of Jerusalem, the scientists examined the DNA of about 148 healthy male and female university students and compared the results with questionnaires asking for the students’ self-descriptions of their sexual desire, arousal and sexual function. They found a correlation between variants in a gene called the D4 receptor and the students’ self-reports on.
While, you might be thinking he’s intentionally staying on your case, this sex drive might just have been in his gene with him knowing anything about it either.
5. YOU COULD BE THE CAUSE
It’s funny to find out you might be the cause of his sexual urge, without having the tiny idea you caused it. He might not have cautioned you against leading him to always want it, if he prefers it to going out to do it with other women.
If you don’t want your man going astray and you keep swinging your waist in his face all the time you are around him, you are the cause. Or you always give him that look, whether you are in the house or not, you may be inviting him over again and again.
You may be dressing provocatively before him too. You may even be the one giving him the kind of food that’s leading him to be running around you in the home. The most important is that you are now aware you may be contributing to his attitude, desires and sexual urge.
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