Happy couples always look forward to a bed time, when they’d be free from the house chores, complaining and questioning from the kids, and also free from office duties for the day.
Happy couples know that it’s at bed time they get the full attentions of each other, where the man won’t have to set his gaze anymore on the computer or TV, watching news, when the wife would have resigned from the kitchen to relax and gain enough energy for the next day activities.
Happy couples do 5 things mentioned under here on routine, which means it’s regular, habitual and it’s already normal with them to do every night without thinking.
Couples do a lot of things together in the night but these are the few 5 that occur most, among happy couples. Here are the gists;
1. SLEEP IN BED TOGETHER
Oh, happy couple always want to stay in bed together. Did you know even if they had a fight during the day or even before bed time, they still crave to stay together on a bed. You know why? They want to settle their disagreement very quickly, so it won’t spill to the next day.
Happy couples don’t stay up late, except they are already in bed together. But they won’t stay up separately and stay up late. They won’t! They want to be in bed together to do the routine, which has become normal to them and they can’t but do it every night—plan, argue, gist and pray.
Happy couples can’t wait for the night time in bed when they hold each other, look at each others face, when they caress and give each other nice massage, that’s one of the time they get to shower together and all that.
O’ yeah, night time, free time, relaxation time, the uninterrupted period that couples put heads together again to plan and forge ahead in life. In their bedroom, they analyse how the day has gone by, what happened at work, what lessons they’ve learnt, how they can get better together.
Couples talk about family needs, children needs, future, plans for the remote family, their targets together and as an individual. At bed time, planning time, couples even put pens to paper, if need be.
Bed time is also the time couples evaluate. They take a look at their last plans and evaluate accordingly.
Yes, no way such things as plans will take place without some slight disagreement on some certain issues. Of course, couples aren’t expected to be on a different page, hence the need to speak out and reach an amiable conclusion at once.
Happy couples don’t mean less disagreeing couple, it’s just that they settle as quick as possible, they don’t have rooms for grudges, which can later lead to fights. They already know this so they don’t let their disagreement escalate.
One of the things couples enjoy most at bed time is to gist and gist and gist. We don’t call it gossip at this level, it’s called gist.
It could be about their children and their characters, it could be about the children’s schools or their teachers. Couples use the bed time to give themselves information on the family or the activities around
Couples also gist about their work or colleagues. They gist about something usual or unusual sighted on their way to work or the community. If you go near these couples bedrooms, all you will get are two people whispering and laughing out loud.
Happy couples end their bedtime sessions with prayers. Couples pray and thank God over the family, their work, finance, health etc for the day gone by and commit the next day in God’s hands. This is a routine and if they already have kids, they do this having their family gathered in their bedrooms and disperse the family members afterwards to have their night time together as couples.
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